[color=#800080]well i was dating this guy this summer. we dated for about a month. and he was the first guy i could actually be myself around, i didnt care what i looked like around him beacuse thats nots what was important. i wouls have no makeup on and i hadnt taken a shower in 3 days [we were camping] and he still would call me beautiful. and he would say it in a way that you could tell he ment it. no o your beautiful that you cant beieve. he was always there to comfort me and make me laugh and feel better when i would cry. i was so comfortable around him and i felt safe in his arms. i could go over to his house and watch a movie and not feel pressure to do anything......well it was like a day short of a month and he calls me, saying we should break up beacuse between college [in town] and his new job [in town] he would never be home. so we would just be friends. and we could still talk and hang out as much as possible. i cried so hard all day that day. i just couldnt understand why he would do that. there was no sadness in his voice, nothing. so then i just desided to forget about it, he still saidwe could be friends and talk. well.... we didnt talk for a week after thet. then i tried writing him on myspace [he was online] he read it, and didnt reply. i was confused and sad. so then i just told myself to forget about him, he must not really be worth it. well he just happens to live across the street from me... so i would see him sometime when i would leave but we would never say hi to each other ar anything. and now its been about 2 weeks since the break up, 2 days ago i was on our golf cart going into the yard, he was outside and looked at me like i was supposed to say hi and maybe even go over there and talk to him, i was mad and wanted to stay strong. so i acted like i didnt even see him. well today he wrote me on myspace saying "hey cutie....how are you?" all i wrote back was "good you?" i really didnt wanna talk to him. he has hurt me so much. and i dont know if i could bring myself to actually talk to him, let alone try and tell him how i feel or try and work things out. what is your guyses advice on what i should do?[/color]

Wow. First: Pray. And my advice is to just try and be friends. Even though it hurt to have a break up, I'm sure it won't hurt to be friends. That's all I have to say.. I'm sorry it's not very good advice lol. :] -courtney

I'm sorry about the breakup, but just try to be friends. You see, you say you didn't talk for a week? That's not super long. It's not like you have to talk everyday, maybe he just wanted a little space. And the myspace thing? Maybe he had a reason for not replying. Maybe he was doing something else and couldn't reply, you need to think that maybe he does have his own reasoning behind not talking to you. And I'm sure he was trying to make up for it by asking you how you were on myspace. Don't be so mad about it, it's not worth your time to be so angry at him. Just try to be friends. Sometime's it's hard to be friends with someone who just broke up with you, and I know you said you two could still talk as much as possible. But sometimes he just needs a little space.

[color=#800080]well its not like he has done it only one time, writing me on myspace and then not writting back, he has done it about 5 times now. he will also do it through texting. like he texted me and said "he i miss talking to you." so i said yeah me too! and he just never wrote back. so i tried texting him a few hours later saying hey and he still never texted back. i feel like he is just playing with me. like he doesnt really wanna talk to me or anything like that. i know it sounds like im like obsedssed with him. im just hurt and confused and im trying to figure out why he keeps doing this[/color]:S