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What should I do?

spritefreak

16 year(s) ago

Ok, well I have this friend and she is like in love with this guy, but there is a problem. I know him and in fact, I am quite good friends with him, and I know for a fact that he doesn't like her. So this friend of mine went over to his house this week to spend the night with his sister because they are pretty good friends. Now here comes the problem(just to let the people know that are reading this, she knows that he doesn't like her because she is really obvious and everyone figured it out, including him, and she didn't have to tell anyone and he told both me and his sister that he didn't) she came back, after spening te night, and is quite convensed that he liked her back even though he told her that he didn't like her only a few days ago. Now I called my friend today to ask him about if he liked her and he straight out told me no. So what should I do? Should I tell her so she doesn't act dumb around him? Or should I just leave it alone and not tell her and let her keep acting obvious and kinda flirty with an uninterested guy? Please respond because it would be very helpful. :)

THeMadHatter

16 year(s) ago

OOooh I know this well. XD What i do is encourage conversation about why she THINKS he likes her, then use everyday situations to prove that it may just be politeness, not love. I find that if you say nothing, she could get hurt, but if she is very persistant about it, getting hurt may be something she needs.

KattyKit

16 year(s) ago

I'd probably tell her, but that probably means that it's not the best thing to do. I'm wrong alot. Is your guy friend exhibiting any behaviors that she can misinterpret? You may need your friend to speak for himself and tell her he doesn't like her. No circumventing, just come out and say, "I do not like you in that way."

spritefreak

16 year(s) ago

Thank you. And to answer your question, yeah he winks and pokes fun, but he does that to everyone. That may be the reason that she thinks that, but the weird thing is that she even says,"I know he doesn't like me like that," and then the next day she will be like,"Omgsh, I think that he likes me." I don't know what I am going to do for now, but thanks for the input. :)

KattyKit

16 year(s) ago

I think your friend (your gal friend) is doing this to either gain attention from you or from him. If she says she knows, then look for another reason.

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