ok here is my delima, a boi at school likes me and i like him alot.;) see we share alot of friends at school and all and they tell me he likes me and all and hes planning on asking me out -they tell me this alot- but he hasnt done it yet and its been two weeks.:unsure: every one is saying hes scared but i tell all my freinds that know him i like him too and if he asks me out im saying yes but he still hasnt and i want to ask him but i dont think its rite for a gurl to have to ask the guy out. it gets more complicated- theres a guy at church and he likes me and i like hime to but i still like the guy at school more and i think the church boi might ask me out first and ahhh!!! idk what to do!! PLEASE HELP!!! :dry:

Well, my first question is what are you looking for? Do you want to date just to date? If so, I don't entirely agree with your choice, but that's up to you and your parents. However, if you aren't looking for a serious relationship, I must give you a bit of wisdom that a friend gave to me: all dating ends one of two ways. You'll either break up or get married. It's that simple. Just something that might save you some heartache. Also, something I've learned from personal experience is that in the past when I thought I liked more than one guy at a time, it wasn't real. I didn't really know them - I just had crushes on them. Dating is serious business (even though it's fun too), and it takes a lot of work to maintain a relationship. I would say that it's not time for you to ask out either of those guys or for them to ask you out either since you say you like both (and when you say that, I'm assuming that means that you would go out with either of them if they asked, even though you say you like one more than the other - please correct me if I'm wrong). Always pray - God knows your feelings and future and has a plan for you. You can trust Him with these things (and His way is unbelievably better than anything we could make on our own!). Also, talk to your mom. I know that might sound weird, but she's been where you are. My mom was an awesome encouragement and help to me when I was in high school (and still is).

im not sure i no i want to b in a long relationship with the guy i like more and im willing to do all i can to maintain it i dont want to date just cause im single or anything i realy like this guy but i dont think he is sure that he wants to ask me out or not, despite what my friends say and if he dont then i dont want a good desent guy (the other 1) to get by cause i think that he would be a better infuence on me (not saying the other1 is bad at all but) ya i think he would also treat me better and is sweeeter. but ya my mom said she couldnt help me cause she she only had a couple of bfs and she only dated them cause they liked her she didnt like them and when she met my dad he was the only one she realy liked back.