Hi i know im young and this issue is bothering the older gurls on the forum but this is also starting to bother me. I know that as gurls when guys put intrest in u u feel so pretty and beautiful and all that jazz. But after a while it just gets old. i mean we should be worrying about God not about boys. As young women of christ we should be thriving on the word of God not on who stared at u in math class i mean what is more important in the end? ur salvation or Jonny in algebra who gave u a whink and a smile? i would have to go with salvation! dont take this bad but it just gets old!!!! we r just trying to be real with everyone on here and i hope no one is hurt by this thread! thanks!

Which boy threads are the ones bothering you guys, the "oh muy goodness I's in love!" the "Does I really lovez him" or the "Yay i has a crush" or something else?

*applauds* well said

Idk, sometimes I wonder which one of these it is that we come across with our message: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUQX2B67KL4&feature=related http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=clvzJv2ApeM

It's hormones... and please don't tell our Christian sisters to not come to us for advice on any topic. We're okay with hearing it, but it's the fact that they ask for the same advice over and over or get mad at us for being honestly blunt.

*applauds* Thank You! And MadHatter its mainly all of those that you listed. Espescially(sp?) "Yay I has A Crush!"

See, that's the thing, "I has a crush" doesn't bother me unless they chew your tail to make their point. Then I just give them the look of "0.o" translation: "My dear, you are 8 years old... why are you concerned with a boy over recess right now?"

applaud!!!!!!!! i HATE it when gurls r like 8 and they r all :kiss: over guys! dont waste ur time on that! Focus on God!!!!!!!! :)

Look, ok, I'm a teenager, and the fact that you guys are saying that this subject isn't important kind of bothers me. Some girls, like myself, actually do need advice on this kind of thing sometimes. It isn't a sin to want to know if a guy is right or not.

We aren't saying the subject isn't important cause infact it is. We are saying that when under 16's go around saying that they are in 'love' and keep going on about their crushes, that's when it isn't important. We aren't trying to hurt their feelings, we are just calling a spade a spade. If you want advice we will give it to you. We just get sick of those who ask for advice who turn round and reject it because 'we don't know what we are talking about'. I totally agree with wanting to know if a guy is right or not but sometimes waiting is the best thing you can do, waiting on God's timing and praying. upon saying that if you want to chat one on one about anything my inbow is always ope, that goes for any of you firls :)