OMJ!!! Do yall ever wonder why guys are so confusing???!! Why do they have to be so comfusing GOSH! If they like you then why cant they just tell you??? IF they are with sum1 else then why do they mess with you?? Why do they flirt if they dont like you? IF girls arent supposed to ask guys out then why dont they ever ask?!? :angry: Why do they like you one day then the next they dont. Why do they flirt and then as soon as you like them they stop. Why is it that when you say you like them, they dont mess or talk to you anymore???? WHY!!????!! I NEED ANSWERS!!!!! PLEESE SUM! HELP ME!!

Hm... I dont know if I can help you but I think I know what you mean. Most guys think we are like that. It is just a confusing world...haha..:blink: :S :huh:

*enter HattersFrog*....

Hate to break it to you darlin, but most guys have these same problems with girls. It'll be one of two things. Either the guys just a jerk, or he wasn't meaning to lead you on. Was he really flirting? Or did you just hope it was that? Not to mention, how old are you? Do you really need a boyfriend right now?

[b]Harley1994 wrote:[/b] [quote]OMJ!!! Do yall ever wonder why guys are so confusing???!! Why do they have to be so comfusing GOSH! If they like you then why cant they just tell you??? IF they are with sum1 else then why do they mess with you?? Why do they flirt if they dont like you? IF girls arent supposed to ask guys out then why dont they ever ask?!? :angry: Why do they like you one day then the next they dont. Why do they flirt and then as soon as you like them they stop. Why is it that when you say you like them, they dont mess or talk to you anymore???? WHY!!????!! I NEED ANSWERS!!!!! PLEESE SUM! HELP ME!![/quote] i wish i had all the answers it would make my life a breaze the truth is i don't know the guys personally that you speak of. and every guy is different. just like your different them every other girl, so why they do the things they do we'll never know. theres a guy who i really like, he really likes me to, but for some reason he won't come out and say it, its been months of us knowing we like each other, but he just can't tell me. why? i think i know, i think its because hes confused. and isn't sure if he wants a relationship right now. he wants to be a whole person before adds a girlfriend to the mix. when we first started getting to like each other everyone thought we hated each other because we picked and teased each all the time, but we were really building a friendship no one saw. maybe the guy/s your haveing the problem with are undecided and are tryingto figure out if they like you.and trying so hard to play it cool that they don't see that their being jerks. back off of them a little and give them time, if they flirt with you play their game, and when they start acting weirded out by you stop hanging and flirting and talking to them until their ready to be super nice again, even then don't fall for it, play hard to get, and in the end you can play that game forever! but listin Not all guys are like that! those guys you were talking about need lots of time to grow up and even then they might not be worth it. you deserve a great guy whose not going to make you annoyed and make you ask why. and there really are great guys out there! blieve me! you have a lot of life left to meet him don't rush it!:) ;)

I have to agree with Sara on this one! Guys definatly find girls just as confusing but I've found its been easier to understand each other as I've gotten older because you learn. Sorry to break this to you but guys aren't as open as girls, ever noticed that? Us girls like to share our problems and let people know how we are feeling but guys have this tough-guy image that they have to keep up with. They are often afraid to let their feelings show and sometimes they don't know how too. If they are with someone else yet messing with you I say STAY AWAY! It'll only lead to trouble. As for flirting, why does anyone flirt? To be noticed. Have you ever wondered that they may not ask you out because its not the right time? I mean, how old are you? 12? 13? Seriously leave relationships alone until your atleast 17. Trust in God and he will show you which way to God. One thing that has helped me over the years is praying. When I've had feelings for a guy I would pray about it. Everytime I thought about him I'd replace those thoughts with thoughts of God and say "God, help me keep focused on you instead of this guy". If you ever want to talk my inbox is always open :)

dude as iv already siad, OUT OF THE LADIES ONLY FORUM!

Hehe. A little like my fiancee.

And mine too. Hehe he is married to 2 girls and engaged to about 4!

I think Keith is only engaged to me, but he's dating one of my friends too. Only they really are dating. Or were last week, at least.