Ok...so i like this guy and i think that he likes me to. I mean he was really shy at first, but then we started to talk and he started to come out of his shell. He's givin me small hints that he likes me and i've returned them. Last week i took the biggest step that i ever had before with a guy and gave him my phone number and email. My friend said that she saw him after i gave him the note with it inside ( we don't have any classes togethor) and he was grinning. I haven't heard from him since thursday...is that a bad sign???:blush:

it doesnt seem like it 2 me...if he was rlly shy wen u first met him hes prolly tryin 2 get the courage 2 call...or e mail u...it might take a lil while so give him sum time and more than likely he will e mail or call u soon =) good luck!!!

[b]Ali13 wrote:[/b] [quote]it doesnt seem like it 2 me...if he was rlly shy wen u first met him hes prolly tryin 2 get the courage 2 call...or e mail u...it might take a lil while so give him sum time and more than likely he will e mail or call u soon =) good luck!!![/quote] agreed:) don't worry about it... i'd wait a couple weeks, especially if you're expecting a phone call from him, and if you still don't get a call, take the initiative and tell him that you'll call... it sounds like he really likes you, but just doesn't have the courage to take a big step forward, so he might need some help from you along the way... don't worry, he'll open up more as you guys get closer... hope things work out for you two lovebirds:P

Awww! That's SO sweetly adorable! :] Anyways. *cough* back on topic. lol Don't worry, he obviously likes you and he will call or email when he gets the courage, trust me. And if not, maybe help him along. He sounds a little shy. :]

i think you shoud ask him if he has an e-mail that you can ( might not have an e-mail )

I would try to talk to him and ask him out yourself, 'cause guys aren't always that great at reading our hints as to weither we like them or not!

Just remember to take it slow. Just wait a few days, if he doesn't call/e-mail, then give him an e-mail. Be careful though, once things start, they are hard to stop. I've had 4 boyfriends, each for about a year, and every time I look back, I wince. I know it wasn't what God wanted me to do, not so much in the fact that I've had boyfriends, but that I didn't take things slowly a few times, and ended up with regrets. My second boyfriend, (who is still an amazing friend!! ^^) never even kissed me. After a few months we held hands. :P but he and I were happy that way, and really knew each other and just the touch of his hand intoxicated me. Things can be romantic without going very far. But basically, things got bad in some of my relationships, because things weren't taken slowly, but when things were done right, I was left with the best memories, no regrets, and a lasting relationship with an amazing Christian. I mean no offence, but it seems people are urging you slightly to take bigger steps, and I know from experiance that the small things, like you two seem to be doing, are best, not big steps.

thanks for all of the help... come to find out he was grounded and couldn't email me. But he email got off of grounding and emailed me yesterday. thanks for all of your help guys.:laugh: