hi hi....like I said, arg....My parents and I just got into a huge fight today because of a guy I like....I went out with him once before but I had heard things from people that I didn't like so I broke up with him....I still liked him though....He and I started talking again this year, and he and I are back together, my parents found out, and since they know what happened before, and without getting my side in, they got extremely mad and now I'm grounded from the phone and my cell was taken away from me....Help, please....I have no idea what to do, but I do know that I'm not breaking up with him.... ~~Bri~~

UH, I......... DU NO. SORRY.:blink: :( .......................:huh: :dry:

haha, it's fine....I end up in the strangest situations so yah....But, thanks for checking it out....

I guess this could sort of be a sticky situation on your part. I don't really know the whole story, not saying I do or anything, but anyway. If I were you, and I've been in many of those situations, I'd pray about it. I knoe this might sound really wierd and all, but if I can't focus on what I need to (God), then I write a letter. It sounds stupid and jack, but it works for me. Tell God what you feel and what's going on. Ask Him the questions that are on your mind and that kind of stuff. Then when you're finished, pray that He will write back and be sincere about it. Then it's like He's using the ink from the pen (or whatever you're using) and talking to you. Yeah, well that's my suggestion, so.

I have a problem with what you said here, you got back to gether with him without discussing it with your parents first. Perhaps if you had went to them first and had talked it through you wouldn't be in this situation. And don't be mad at them. They are only trying to protect you and be good parents which is exactly what they are doing. So just talk to them kindly and ask them if they would think about letting you and he try again. If they say no just try to respect their opinions and know they have more expirience then you!! ;)

I dunno. I can't tell you to not break up with him if your parents forbid it. I mean, they are your parents. I say take the grounding. Then after that, calmly talk to them about why you think the guy is ok to go out with.

[b]dancingwithtomatoes42 wrote:[/b] [quote]I dunno. I can't tell you to not break up with him if your parents forbid it. I mean, they are your parents. I say take the grounding. Then after that, calmly talk to them about why you think the guy is ok to go out with.[/quote] ditto. except I'll add to pray to G-d about how to talk to them calmly ad respectfully, and to allow both you and your parents to hear each other out and both be understanding. I always pray that before I talk to my parents about something thnk or know they will dis-approve of *shrug* sometimes you have to be more understanding and accepting than they do, but G-d works in mysterious ways and you never know, sometimes parents can really surprise you!:cheer:

1) I didn't tell my parents because they have enough problems right now of their own. 2) He doesn't know that I was grounded, I've obviously not told him yet. 3) I won't be able to talk to him until Tuesday, we're off of school tomorrow. 4) He seems to be the only person that can understand me and I can tell him anything. 5) I have prayed, and so far, I haven't gotten an answer, but it's not in my time, it's in His time. 6) Thank you. ~~Bri~~