so what do you think is God's opinion on brith control? is totally wrong?? in all circumstanaces?? i think its wrong of you're on it bc you just dont wanna have kids so you can live a better life. but what if you're married and yall are just not ready finaiaclly, spriitually, or maturly not ready for a child. is birth control OK?? just wondering...lol im not having kids anytime soon...lol

if someone is married and wants to use birth control..that's fine..that is totally up to the person, but if someone is using it before they are married...that is totally different.....they shouldn't have to be use it!! they should be able to show enough self control to not have to be using birth control. i don't have any scriptures to back me up at the moment..but i know that there are some..just don't know where. God bless. Emma lou

Some girls who aren't married have to use birth control sometimes though. My best friend had to use a birth control patch because her period was lasting over 2 months and the doctor said she needed it. I don't think it's wrong sometimes you need shorter period or something. Later, Sting.

agreed... and sometimes doctors will prescribe birth control for girls who have REALLY bad acne or very irregular periods. Personally I don't think birth control is a bad thing unless girls use it just so they can have sex without being really concerned about getting pregnant...although there is that 1% chance or something that use it and get pregnant. Anyways, I am rambling, the best birth control though is to not engage in sexual activities

if ur on it for birth prevention married or not its wrong. if ur not married shouldn't be giving in to sex and if you are married then thats wrong seeing how God decides if u deserve or dont deserve a child and when u will/wont recieve one....if ur in finnacial trouble and u trust God will help u...He will! i dont understand the acne thing mainly cuz i dont care about zits on my face...but for women who are using it for medical issues to control bleeding or extream cramps..etc. thats alright..but other than that.. christians shouldnt use it.

Post edited by: Lc64, at: 2006/12/16 12:37

with knowing that sex outside of marriage is wrong...... birth control isnt bad...for any of the reasons.....i mean i dont agree with the plan b thing at all.... or any other form of abortion..... but sometimes a married couple jus isnt ready for a child, does that mean that they shouldnt have sex? and with saying that birthcontrol is bad if used for birth prevention b/c God chooses who should have a child and who shouldnt then is all the 'technologies' for helping (married) women become pregnant (i mean other than the whole sperm bank thing) wrong too? and birth control doesnt always work, are we to wrong to think that, that is not God's work? What about the women who cannot have a baby with their husband and go to extremes (not including sperm bank) and still are not able to get pregnant.....is that not God also? and are 'we' saying that all forms of birth control are wrong? pills? patches? condoms? wat about the whole tubes tied thing? is that wrong also?:unsure:

[b]jamiebrooke wrote:[/b] [quote] and are 'we' saying that all forms of birth control are wrong? pills? patches? condoms? wat about the whole tubes tied thing? is that wrong also?:unsure:[/quote] I don't think the tubes tied thing is wrong. Some people have to have that kinda thing done for their own safety. Like their womb is dangerous for a baby or to have another baby would endanger their own life. My mom had her tubes tied after four kids because when she had her last one the doctors said there was a chance that she wouldn't make it cuz she already had 3 c-sections! It was an endangerment to her and the baby. However I don't think that kind of thing should be used a preventitive measures. I believe that it normally can only be done by a doctor who sees medical reasoning for it anyway.

[b]jamiebrooke wrote:[/b] [quote]with knowing that sex outside of marriage is wrong...... birth control isnt bad...for any of the reasons.....i mean i dont agree with the plan b thing at all.... or any other form of abortion..... but sometimes a married couple jus isnt ready for a child, does that mean that they shouldnt have sex? and with saying that birthcontrol is bad if used for birth prevention b/c God chooses who should have a child and who shouldnt then is all the 'technologies' for helping (married) women become pregnant (i mean other than the whole sperm bank thing) wrong too? and birth control doesnt always work, are we to wrong to think that, that is not God's work? What about the women who cannot have a baby with their husband and go to extremes (not including sperm bank) and still are not able to get pregnant.....is that not God also? and are 'we' saying that all forms of birth control are wrong? pills? patches? condoms? wat about the whole tubes tied thing? is that wrong also?:unsure:[/quote] as nice as i can say this....but i never mentioned that using stuff to allow u to have a baby was wrong....having faith that if God were to give a couple a baby even tho they "might not" be ready is what its about! He will help them with needs that may arise and its not right for a couple to say....well i just dont want a child.....then why have sex honestly! God gave us sex to procreate not to just use it cuz it's fun. Sooo if someone isnt ready to have a baby dont have sex that simple! now having tubes tied yea thats fine cuz my mom had to have that done cuz of health reasons as well.....but doing it just cuz u want to have sex w/o the risk of pregnency is wrong.

[quote/]but i never mentioned that using stuff to allow u to have a baby was wrong....[/quote] wat im saying is what is the difference in using stuff to keep u from having a baby and using stuff the allow u to have a baby? maybe i outta rethink my position on this, but i still jus dont understand wats wrogn with Bc........

I don't agree with a lot of birth control methods because they have abortive propities...