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boyfriend over best friend

GiRlYcHrIsTiAn93

18 year(s) ago

ok, so, i'm ansley and i am gettting kind of mixed signals from my boyfriend. and last week, my VERY close friend, who i won't say the name of, had ignored both me and devin, my boyfriend, becasue she likes him. i understand kind of why she did it, but it's because she didn't want us to break up because of her, i got jealous. devin seems to be really happy with our relationship and couldn't understand why i didn't like them being together so much. he didn't realize that i don't like them being together ALL THE TIME, when i barely ever get to see him. and then sometimes, when i'm just messing around with him, he get's upset and totally shuts down. i don't get it, because one minute, he'll be funny and "happy" and then next, or if i say something wrong, he gets upset. and i hate to see him that way. my "friend" and i are "friends" again but i just need to be really careful around her. and especially when i talk about devin, because i don't want to bring up something that might make her get that awkward feeling....i know i know, i TRY to, but im just a girl, i can't be nice all the time, so take it or leave it. lol, so um, just please reply with whatever advice you can give. or message me, or add me as a friend, idc. ttyl. :dry:

HeDiedForUs726

18 year(s) ago

[b]GiRlYcHrIsTiAn93 wrote:[/b] [quote]ok, so, i'm ansley and i am gettting kind of mixed signals from my boyfriend. and last week, my VERY close friend, who i won't say the name of, had ignored both me and devin, my boyfriend, becasue she likes him. i understand kind of why she did it, but it's because she didn't want us to break up because of her, i got jealous. devin seems to be really happy with our relationship and couldn't understand why i didn't like them being together so much. he didn't realize that i don't like them being together ALL THE TIME, when i barely ever get to see him. and then sometimes, when i'm just messing around with him, he get's upset and totally shuts down. i don't get it, because one minute, he'll be funny and "happy" and then next, or if i say something wrong, he gets upset. and i hate to see him that way. my "friend" and i are "friends" again but i just need to be really careful around her. and especially when i talk about devin, because i don't want to bring up something that might make her get that awkward feeling....i know i know, i TRY to, but im just a girl, i can't be nice all the time, so take it or leave it. lol, so um, just please reply with whatever advice you can give. or message me, or add me as a friend, idc. ttyl. :dry:[/quote] darlin', maybe its cuz i know u all personally, and you are like my sister and devin is like a really crazy dude, but seriously, it just kind of needs to be brought to airhead's attention.

GiRlYcHrIsTiAn93

18 year(s) ago

yeah, i understand. lol, but it feels like we just went through that with her not too long ago....?am, i wrong? remember, devin told her her place and she quit talking to both of us and then you know, one day she decides to act like everything's fine. when really....it's kinda not. and i can't stand how she's ALWAYS with devin. it makes me really jealous and i know that it's wrong but she basically waves him in front of my face, knowing that i can't really do anything about it. i just want things back how they were. when there was nothing between them. well, for sarah beth, there's something there, but for devin, there's nothing.

iPraygirl

18 year(s) ago

BEST FRIEND OH YEA!!! BOYFRIENDS COME AND GO BUT FRIENDS AND FAMILY ARE THERE FOR YOU KNOW MATTER WHT

joe-jonas-lover

18 year(s) ago

I was thinking about this question ALL night (even before you put it up) and I can't think of what I would do!

VeronicaMarsGurl

18 year(s) ago

idk if im rele allowd to say this but wht ev lol you know how boys have there sayin bros before...well starts with a h and ends with a o lol but yea me and friend made up sisters before misters so you with you best friend you friendship with her will last longer

joe-jonas-lover

18 year(s) ago

I tihnkI would say if I am truely in love with someone, sorry bff, my bf is stay'n (mostly if Joe asked me out, sorry people, the truth my hurt)

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