Guys please, stay out of the girls forum. There is a reason that it is for girls only. We are talking about subjects that are sometimes really hard to talk about and most of us refuse to talk to guys (especially) about these topic for a reason!!! So please be gentlemen and give us our space. I know there are some of you that come on here for girls advice; please put it on a general forum so that you don't come on ours again. Girls, we have to stay off the guys forum. I know it is tempting to see what they are up to, but be curtious and give them their secure area to get help and input on stuff from other guys. Please let me know if I am the only one who feels this way!

No, I definitely feel the same way. This is a rule that I have been trying to encourage and enforce (as far as I am able). I think that the rules were made for a reason and that by following them we are respecting people of both genders and respecting the authority and dedication of the creator of this site. It bothers me to see guys freely posting in the girls' forum, and ladies, it bugs me to know that some of you post in the guys' (because odds are some of you do).

Same here. I completely agree. Girls, if you want advice from guys than post your thread in the open discussion and I would suggest trying to refrain from posting in the guys only forum.

no offense, but I think that this thread is a wasted effort... no matter how hard you try, there are always going to be a few guys that come in the girls forum and there's always going to be a few girls that go in the guy's forum... no one can ensure that it wont happen... I think that the guys that come in the girls forum and vica verca just need to learn something called respect... everyone just needs to respect the privacy of the opposite sex's forum... sounds simple, but once again, it won't totally happen... sry girls, but i'm just stating the facts

[b]hexisxmyxrefuge wrote:[/b] [quote]no offense, but I think that this thread is a wasted effort... no matter how hard you try, there are always going to be a few guys that come in the girls forum and there's always going to be a few girls that go in the guy's forum... no one can ensure that it wont happen... I think that the guys that come in the girls forum and vica verca just need to learn something called respect... everyone just needs to respect the privacy of the opposite sex's forum... sounds simple, but once again, it won't totally happen... sry girls, but i'm just stating the facts[/quote] I know what you are saying but I think that they need to understand that there are some of us that think this is wrong. Yes, they need to learn respect and this may very well be a wasted effort but some one has to try even if nothing comes of it.

i know right!

but i like being nosey ....

[size=5][/size] I AGREE W/ EVERYONE!!!!! [size=3][/size] (EVEN THE NOSEY GUY)

I agree. It is not right for guys to be nosing through here. There are some girls on here who need help from other girls and they are problems that they are really insecure about. This is a place for us to share our hearts as sisters in Christ and you guys have no place here. SO STAY OUT! If you are curious, post in the general section or ask questions directly.

There have been a lot of threads talking about this...and it never seesm to go anywhere...no one changes:) I agree that we should not be on the guys and guys should not be on the girls...and I think it's awful they a lot of us blatently disrespect the admins by posting in opposite forum...i think that all their posts should be deleted or moved to the open discussion...they would get just as many replys there as here..maybe even more.