[b]Always_Forever wrote:[/b] [quote]so girls, i went to see Tyler yesterday, and as soon as i started talking to him about the day of the crash, he said my name! that is thats what it sounded like! the Doctor rushed in and well i don't know what was going on with Tyler but it wasn't good! and his mom who was out side of the room heard him, she ran in, i couldn't say anymore i just couldn't stop crying i'm soo afraid that he'll die! she { his mom] said she heard what i was saying and demanded to hear the rest! I told her i'd call her...but i haven't. even if it wern't my fault, i Don't want to be blamed!!!!if i come clean with Tylers family I'll have his blood on my hands! Can i live with that!? Now i'm cutting myself again, and its gotten so bad that i lost a ton of blod last night and had to go to the ER. it's getting to a scary place![/quote] well... this is alot. im very very sorry to be hearing this.. its got me crying too. well, maybe you should talk to his family. are they understanding people? explain to them what was going on. keep talking to Tyler even if he isnt responding. sometimes that does help. my mom had been in accoma for 3 days and they didnt think she would make it. she did. just keep faith. about the cutting.. ive had some troubles with that lately myself. what ive found that works sometimes is stay around people!, if you find yourself alone and wanting to, if its in your hand throw it against the wall. if you pick it up again, throw it back at the wall. pray alot, you are in my prayers big time. but deff keep talking to him no matter what state he is in. its ok to cry.. this is a very difficult thing to go through. take a bible with you to the hospital and read him some verses. find something you really like, read it to him. even if there is no responce. dont feel guilty.. try not to. if you want, PM me. im here for you.

[b]Ali13 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Always_Forever wrote:[/b] [quote]so girls, i went to see Tyler yesterday, and as soon as i started talking to him about the day of the crash, he said my name! that is thats what it sounded like! the Doctor rushed in and well i don't know what was going on with Tyler but it wasn't good! and his mom who was out side of the room heard him, she ran in, i couldn't say anymore i just couldn't stop crying i'm soo afraid that he'll die! she { his mom] said she heard what i was saying and demanded to hear the rest! I told her i'd call her...but i haven't. even if it wern't my fault, i Don't want to be blamed!!!!if i come clean with Tylers family I'll have his blood on my hands! Can i live with that!? Now i'm cutting myself again, and its gotten so bad that i lost a ton of blod last night and had to go to the ER. it's getting to a scary place![/quote] well... this is alot. im very very sorry to be hearing this.. its got me crying too. well, maybe you should talk to his family. are they understanding people? explain to them what was going on. keep talking to Tyler even if he isnt responding. sometimes that does help. my mom had been in accoma for 3 days and they didnt think she would make it. she did. just keep faith. about the cutting.. ive had some troubles with that lately myself. what ive found that works sometimes is stay around people!, if you find yourself alone and wanting to, if its in your hand throw it against the wall. if you pick it up again, throw it back at the wall. pray alot, you are in my prayers big time. but deff keep talking to him no matter what state he is in. its ok to cry.. this is a very difficult thing to go through. take a bible with you to the hospital and read him some verses. find something you really like, read it to him. even if there is no responce. dont feel guilty.. try not to. if you want, PM me. im here for you.[/quote] its not easy but i'll try! thank you so much:)