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Guy friends... (aka: the rant on non-boyfriends)

THeMadHatter

17 year(s) ago

So there's a story behind this one. There was a guy from my school who kind of followed me around without really talking to me. I blew it off for a long time until he found me on another website and we started talking and he began to tell me how he had this obsession with me or something. ( :dry: creepy i know) He kept hitting on me (cute, :P i'll admit. Hey, is there any girl that hates that attention? ;) ) but we still talked and even though I didn't want to, I began to want some kind of friendship with him. Most of my best friends in the world are guys who would help protect me from people just so they could pick me up and throw me in the mud themselves. :laugh: I thought this guy could possibly become one of those kinds of guys for me. He had a really interesting story that i really wanted to get to know, and our late-night talks on life the universe and everything were really deep and interesting. We even got into a debate on theology and since he's not a Christian, he had some really interesting views. So yeah, you see why I wanted a friendship. I didn't want any more than that. Unfortunatly, friendship was not what he had in mind. :unsure: He only wanted a dating relationship with someone. He told me the other day that he got a new girlfriend and they hadn't been talking for more than a day. I don't get to talk to him anymore. We'll talk, but it's not the same... it's not like it was at all. There's no meaning to it and hardly a conversation at all. Not just because there's no flirting from his side, there's just no depth either. I should've listened to what the others were telling me... that he was an all-or-nothing kind of guy. I hate to say this, but it's kind of depressing that it's just gone now. :( Sorry for this being so long... I had to rant. Comment or throw advice at me if you wish. (I'd prefer you throw rocks at me though. Maybe it'll knock some sense into my thick head before I attempt to trust a guy with that reputation again.)

Dragonrider

17 year(s) ago

haha no worries hun. iv been there done that. u just never kno with guys, and wat they think. s

Lornea

17 year(s) ago

Nah, it's all good. We all gotta rant at sometime or another and MyPraize is the perfect place to do that in my opinion. If there isn't anymore depth in the friendship, then it sounds like its time to break it off. Leave him and move on. It's his fault that he lost an awesome friend and its his loss. :)

THeMadHatter

17 year(s) ago

Apparently I wasn't even his friend to begin with... I was only something for the stupid dog to chase. Is it possible to be broken-hearted when you find out that's what happened? That a friendship that you thought you had never even existed?

Bittersweet

17 year(s) ago

[b]THeMadHatter wrote:[/b] [quote]Apparently I wasn't even his friend to begin with... I was only something for the stupid dog to chase. Is it possible to be broken-hearted when you find out that's what happened? That a friendship that you thought you had never even existed?[/quote] Where does he live so I can go beat the crap out of him? You don't deserve this.

Lornea

17 year(s) ago

[b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]THeMadHatter wrote:[/b] [quote]Apparently I wasn't even his friend to begin with... I was only something for the stupid dog to chase. Is it possible to be broken-hearted when you find out that's what happened? That a friendship that you thought you had never even existed?[/quote] Where does he live so I can go beat the crap out of him? You don't deserve this.[/quote] Yeah! I'm comin too. Where's my good ol' high heels and that baseball bat?

Bittersweet

17 year(s) ago

[b]Lornea wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]THeMadHatter wrote:[/b] [quote]Apparently I wasn't even his friend to begin with... I was only something for the stupid dog to chase. Is it possible to be broken-hearted when you find out that's what happened? That a friendship that you thought you had never even existed?[/quote] Where does he live so I can go beat the crap out of him? You don't deserve this.[/quote] Yeah! I'm comin too. Where's my good ol' high heels and that baseball bat?[/quote] I took them so I can take all the blame. :P

Lornea

17 year(s) ago

[b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Lornea wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]THeMadHatter wrote:[/b] [quote]Apparently I wasn't even his friend to begin with... I was only something for the stupid dog to chase. Is it possible to be broken-hearted when you find out that's what happened? That a friendship that you thought you had never even existed?[/quote] Where does he live so I can go beat the crap out of him? You don't deserve this.[/quote] Yeah! I'm comin too. Where's my good ol' high heels and that baseball bat?[/quote] I took them so I can take all the blame. :P[/quote] WHAT??? WHY DID YOU TAKE THEM?? Seniorita, u r going to pay.

Bittersweet

17 year(s) ago

[b]Lornea wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Lornea wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]THeMadHatter wrote:[/b] [quote]Apparently I wasn't even his friend to begin with... I was only something for the stupid dog to chase. Is it possible to be broken-hearted when you find out that's what happened? That a friendship that you thought you had never even existed?[/quote] Where does he live so I can go beat the crap out of him? You don't deserve this.[/quote] Yeah! I'm comin too. Where's my good ol' high heels and that baseball bat?[/quote] I took them so I can take all the blame. :P[/quote] WHAT??? WHY DID YOU TAKE THEM?? Seniorita, u r going to pay.[/quote] Like I said. So I can take all the blame.

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