hey guys i have'nt been on in awhile anyway. me and my bf or now i should say ex-bf. we were going out for nine mouths and then all the suden he makes my bestfriend give me a note from him saying that he wants to break up and just be friends HE BROKE UP WITH ME WITH A NOTE!!!!!!! I MEAN COME ON HOW STUPID COULD YOU GET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and his sister is the one who told him to do it. and now they wont even look at me. me and his sister were "bestfriends" now she want even look at me and she want even talk to me. and i dont feel pain but yet i do. it hurts becuse his sister has been telling him not to talk to me and that [we just broke up] to go out with this girl that could do soooooooooooooooooooooooooo much better then him but i guess there going out. ppl in my school know whut happand and they say that i've been handling this hole this thing better then they would, but ever time i see him i want to slap his face. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .whut should i do?????????????????????plesas help me!! right now i really hate guys just once i would LOVE to meet a guy that is whut he says he is you know like sweet, funny,careing,when i cry they would hold me,someone who i can trust,someone who will make me want to cry tears of joy cuse i was so happy.just one guy. i would die to meet just one guy like that. but i guess i never will. anyways help me cuse i need some help so i dont slap him. thanx guys! FadedWings

Firstly, I think the title would be more accurate if it said "A Guy and a Girl Hurt Me!" Not to be mean or anything, please don't misunderstand me, but according to your post, you were hurt by both genders; being a guy myself, I would appreciate if this statement would be corrected. Guys hurt girl. True. Girls hurt guys. True. Let it alone. Secondly, I don't want to sound like some old guy or anything, but you should calm down, 'cause you really do have your whole life ahead of you. You have another 10+ years until many people would recommend you even consider dating. Thirdly, you say you're hurt...the only answer would be to consult the Healer.

[b]Fadedwings wrote:[/b] [quote] just once i would LOVE to meet a guy that is whut he says he is you know like...[/quote] I think the last thing you need is to meet another guy right now. It's not healthy the way people (I'm not saying you) do that, go from one relationship to another. You gotta take time, be you, get over the hurt, and make sure you're whole on your own before you go worrying about meeting another guy.

what a looser(not trying to be mean) but who breaks up with someone through a note, thats worse than on the internet, if that was me i would at least tell you in person. but dont worry god has someone out there for you, just wait

THANK YOU finally someone who's not telling me that i wasn't ready for a relationship and just understod whut i was trieing to say. thank you that was sweet!;)

[b]piratesnake wrote:[/b] [quote]but dont worry god has someone out there for you, just wait[/quote] How do you know that God has someone out there for her?

[b]Fadedwings wrote:[/b] [quote]hey guys i have'nt been on in awhile anyway. me and my bf or now i should say ex-bf. we were going out for nine mouths and then all the suden he makes my bestfriend give me a note from him saying that he wants to break up and just be friends HE BROKE UP WITH ME WITH A NOTE!!!!!!! I MEAN COME ON HOW STUPID COULD YOU GET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and his sister is the one who told him to do it. and now they wont even look at me. me and his sister were "bestfriends" now she want even look at me and she want even talk to me. and i dont feel pain but yet i do. it hurts becuse his sister has been telling him not to talk to me and that [we just broke up] to go out with this girl that could do soooooooooooooooooooooooooo much better then him but i guess there going out. ppl in my school know whut happand and they say that i've been handling this hole this thing better then they would, but ever time i see him i want to slap his face. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .whut should i do?????????????????????plesas help me!! right now i really hate guys just once i would LOVE to meet a guy that is whut he says he is you know like sweet, funny,careing,when i cry they would hold me,someone who i can trust,someone who will make me want to cry tears of joy cuse i was so happy.just one guy. i would die to meet just one guy like that. but i guess i never will. anyways help me cuse i need some help so i dont slap him. thanx guys! FadedWings[/quote] wow i feel for ya. something like this happened to me. this guy was really sweet and everything. we went out for exactly 3 wks then he broke up with me for the stupidest reason. a couple of mo. l8r we went out again for a wk. then a couple mo. ago for 2 days....well i was stupid for taking him back all those times and all but he was and still is the sweetest guy ever and that scares me b/c i'm afraid if he asks me out again i'll say yes then he'll break my heart again...so yeah i agree with you guys r jerks but then again they can be sweet...lol idk...but w/e good luck

Guys can be Jerks. I know enough of them.... But then so can girlz. Like this guy I know.... He is sooooo sweet & cute....I'll explain in my thing..... But just ignor the jerk. DONT SAY YES WHEN HE ASK YOU OUT@!!!!!!! And something you COULD ask him if he asks you out again say"Maybe how long will it be befor you dump me" Or "dump him!" just dont be overly mean or w/e....

[b]Looking4theLight wrote:[/b] [quote]Guys can be Jerks. I know enough of them.... But then so can girlz. Like this guy I know.... He is sooooo sweet & cute....I'll explain in my thing..... But just ignor the jerk. DONT SAY YES WHEN HE ASK YOU OUT@!!!!!!! And something you COULD ask him if he asks you out again say"Maybe how long will it be befor you dump me" Or "dump him!" just dont be overly mean or w/e....[/quote] *cough*

Hey now MisterNathan i said girlz can be Jerks 2....... Both are equal at it.....:dry: