Ok first of all, hi!!! lol Now, ok i think that most of us girls and most of the guys too, (no not all just some/most. lol) sometimes go into the forum that isn't exacrtly 4 us right? Ok we all kno it's true. lol what i don't understand is why some people get mad about it, i mean a bunch of us do it right? and we all kno the guys do it too, plus i think that most of the time, we r just trying to find out a bit more about the guys, and i have no clue about them. lol i don't get guys, which is exactly my point. but do u get wat i mean here? I mean w/ some things yeah don't go looking, but w/ most of the stuff, it's dating stuff or things like that. Sure it says that it's for either men or women, but everyone is just curious really about wat the other one thinks. Am i right? lol i just think that it's gonna happen so why waste ur time being mad about it when u can just help them. right? lol well i hope i didn't confuse Y'all too much. ttyl Meg =P

ok so no one at all wants to write me back? LOL jk ttyl

Well even if most guys and girls look they shouldn't be looking...the rules say no posting...and sicne this is a christian site guys and girls should be able to respect each other enough and not look, and if they are looking at least post in the od.

I agree with Emmy completely.

so do i. but most likely ppl r still gonna look. i'm not saying it's right, because it's not, but it's probably gonna happen, so i just think that we should not get mad when it does happen, because it's wrong, yes but they r gonna do it. u kno?

Yeah I'm sure they're going to do it, but I still don't thin kwe should condone their actions and let them get away with it:) I think we should hold each other accountable...but your're right it's obvious that some fo teh guys adn girls will never learn to respect each other enough to stay out of the others forums.

thank u! lol yes i think it's wrong and ppl need a bit more contorl, but it's gona happen and we can't stop it! lol so anyway. thanx, ttyl! Meg