ok... well I have been dating this guy for about 9 months... and we love eachother... hes my everything and well, Im pregnant, and haven't told him. How should I tell him... Im kinda scared.

WOW, you have quite the problem on your hands. For one the bible speaks about abstinence and how you are not supposed to have sex until you are married to the guy. And well you happen to be 16 according to your profile. If you and this guy are really serious about eachother you should be able to respect eachother and 9 months is defintly not long enough. Are you sure you are pregnant? If you are, [b]you should go to your parents FIRST NOT YOUR BF, they need to know so that you can get help becuase you probably aren't ready to be a responsible parent.[/b] A child is a lot of responsibility, please get your parents help, i know it will be a hard thing to do but its the right thing. Please don't delay. I'll be keeping you in my prayers i hope everything works out.

I agree that you need to talk with your parents. They are the ones who will be able to help and support you the most in this (ideally). I also strongly recommend that you find a Christian crisis pregnancy center to talk with - they can really help you and give you all the information you will need. I've been looking for some websites, which I'll link here if I can figure out how to do so. You might want to check your phone book, though, and your church. http://www.covenantnews.com/pregnant/#ny I don't know where you live in NY, but this site has links to several pregnancy centers in your state. Check them out, and please call one. Yes, you will have to let your boyfriend know. If you need to, take a good friend who is supportive with you. Don't let anyone talk you into doing something you don't want to do, and don't let anyone talk you into aborting your baby. It is already a precious human being and a miracle from God, and that will never change.

Yeha,um...You are not supposed to have premarital sex!!! And you should tell your parents first. Wheather you are sure or not, you should also tell him. If you are REALLY in love, then you know he will take responsibility for his actions, and do what's right. p.s. jesus loves you no matter what, and you're in my prayers!!!!

Yeah, I already solved the problem, I talked to my family... and I didnt come in here looking for correction, I already know that prematial sex is wrong... maybe you should have read the whole forum before commenting.... :)

How're things going? Are they still going ok? I've been praying for you, please update us with news on your baby:)

[b]Emmy89 wrote:[/b] [quote]How're things going? Are they still going ok? I've been praying for you, please update us with news on your baby:)[/quote] Yeah, what she said. ;)

I've been doing really good... jsut here at home, and going to school... I got a job... so its cool... :)