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Cortney

17 year(s) ago

ok so im having probs with my parents, they don't let me go any where or do anything and it gets me really mad!. they say all my friends parents r stupid and im not really dis agreeing when they say that but still its not right.... but wuts really bugging me is i want 2 hang out with my bf im not allowed 2 have one but i do and my parents don't let me go any where so i can never see him!.... do u guys know of any way that i could c him?[color=#800080][/color]

Twig401

17 year(s) ago

Well... I do agree with the others, that you shouldn't have a boyfriend behind your parent's back, so you should just talk to your parents and work out a deal where you can go to hang out with your friends like once a month or something. That's all I got :]

Romans-8-38

17 year(s) ago

I don't think having a boyfriend is a good idea especially when your parents don't want you to.

Lornea

17 year(s) ago

Eh...Your only 14, why worry about having a boyfriend anyway? And your parents are only restricting you for your own good. Sorry for sounding like Dolores Umbridge from Harry Potter, but it's the truth.

Anko

17 year(s) ago

[b]Cortney wrote:[/b] [quote]ok so im having probs with my parents, they don't let me go any where or do anything and it gets me really mad!. they say all my friends parents r stupid and im not really dis agreeing when they say that but still its not right.... but wuts really bugging me is i want 2 hang out with my bf im not allowed 2 have one but i do and my parents don't let me go any where so i can never see him!.... do u guys know of any way that i could c him?[color=#800080][/color][/quote] It's most likely that no one's going to tell you a way of seeing him, because they all pretty much know it's not right of you to have a boyfriend when you're not allowed to have one. Ask him to wait for you until you ARE allowed to have a boyfriend. As far as them not letting you go anywhere or do anything, I know it makes you mad, but you can't do much about it. They're your parents and you have to respect them.

sonworshipper

17 year(s) ago

umm..... i have a suggestion. why don't you talk to your parents about it. tell them how you feel about it and maybe see if he could come over to your house to watch a movie or something. that way they know what's going on and they can meet the guy to. now that said , if your parents say no bf, don't go behind their backs and date bc it never turns out pretty.it woould be wise to wait a while to date though,bc i didn't go on my actual 1st date until i was 15. and it is something you have to be very careful about, so try to ease your parents into the idea.

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