ok so im having probs with my parents, they don't let me go any where or do anything and it gets me really mad!. they say all my friends parents r stupid and im not really dis agreeing when they say that but still its not right.... but wuts really bugging me is i want 2 hang out with my bf im not allowed 2 have one but i do and my parents don't let me go any where so i can never see him!.... do u guys know of any way that i could c him?[color=#800080][/color]

Well... I do agree with the others, that you shouldn't have a boyfriend behind your parent's back, so you should just talk to your parents and work out a deal where you can go to hang out with your friends like once a month or something. That's all I got :]

I don't think having a boyfriend is a good idea especially when your parents don't want you to.

Eh...Your only 14, why worry about having a boyfriend anyway? And your parents are only restricting you for your own good. Sorry for sounding like Dolores Umbridge from Harry Potter, but it's the truth.

[b]Cortney wrote:[/b] [quote]ok so im having probs with my parents, they don't let me go any where or do anything and it gets me really mad!. they say all my friends parents r stupid and im not really dis agreeing when they say that but still its not right.... but wuts really bugging me is i want 2 hang out with my bf im not allowed 2 have one but i do and my parents don't let me go any where so i can never see him!.... do u guys know of any way that i could c him?[color=#800080][/color][/quote] It's most likely that no one's going to tell you a way of seeing him, because they all pretty much know it's not right of you to have a boyfriend when you're not allowed to have one. Ask him to wait for you until you ARE allowed to have a boyfriend. As far as them not letting you go anywhere or do anything, I know it makes you mad, but you can't do much about it. They're your parents and you have to respect them.

umm..... i have a suggestion. why don't you talk to your parents about it. tell them how you feel about it and maybe see if he could come over to your house to watch a movie or something. that way they know what's going on and they can meet the guy to. now that said , if your parents say no bf, don't go behind their backs and date bc it never turns out pretty.it woould be wise to wait a while to date though,bc i didn't go on my actual 1st date until i was 15. and it is something you have to be very careful about, so try to ease your parents into the idea.