I had this friend named DJ. You see, he's emo. So emo, that when his girlfriend brokeup with him he tried to get run over by a bus. Me and him started going out, but after a month he stopped talking to me. I texted him at least every day, but he never answered. I think it might have been because I said some thing about church. I then tried texting him on the day before thanksgiving and he said that he didn't want anything to do with me. I asked him why, and he said because he's a monster. I told him that he was no such thing. Because he was so nice before this. Then he cussed. I finally got fusstrated with him and said: Fine! Go into deneile see if I care, with crying faces at the end of the text. Then he called me a b. I keep thinking that I should go apoloize to him, but then he's also not a godly person. I don't know what to do. After all I'll just end up inviting him to church again. He hates church, or at least I think he does. I love church. I need help. Alot of help.

Just a question... You think its ok for us not to apologise to "ungodly" people? I personally think you should apologise for saying that to him but I don't think it would be wise to start dating him again. It says in the bible not to be yoked with unbelievers and I know from personal experiences that you should pay attention to that. It sounds like this guy needs some help and needs it from someone older and wiser. Has he ever seen a counsellor (sp)? It sounds like he is bringing you down and causing you to be frustrated and that isn't a good type of relationship or even friendship to be in. I'm not saying to fully give up on him but you need to be very careful so you don't get dragged away from God. My advice is continue being a friend but watch the distance and pray for him.

Help him when you can, be there for him, but like Kezi said, watch the distance, ok? I think you should apologise. And don't invite him to church until he's ready, if at all. Let him know that you're his friend and you love him how he is.

you should apologize if you've done anything mean to him but you shouldn't apologize for talking about your lord and savior Jesus christ. you should definitely break up wiht him but keep talking to him about the bible, church, and most importantly God.

i think you should keep your distance but still be there for him and keep trying to be a godly influance for him, but just watch the distance but you can't be the holy spirit for him but but be nice to him and stuff like that

ill be praying for God to give you wisdom

Paige, she might have liked him

i meant like, "like, like" enough to date him

What Hollie said still applies

well we dont know the reasons for why she dated him so we shouldnt say that she shouldnt have dated him at all