Ok so i really i know i should be somewhat happy that im single but i just really, really want to be with a guy. I feel weird when some people tell me they are dating and they are younger than me...im only 13.....isnt that kinda weird? Any way please give me some advice on what i can do to stop feeling like a "nondater"..so to speak. *(Emilie)*

Erm...forgive my ignorance, but what do you mean "feeling like a 'nondater'"?

Post edited by: disciple_in_training, at: 2008/01/15 16:57

i cant help you but i know how u feel ive been without a guy for over a year. i want a boyfriend so bad but i guess the guy i like doesnt like me back because my friend asked him how he felt about me and he said im good as a gf or a bff but im better as a bff. i dont really talk to him much so if i talk to him more maybe he will like me as a gf but anyway sorry for going on about my problems and sorry i dont have an answer to yours.

i know how you feel i was single for 16 years but now i ahve a boyfriend!!

thanks all for the advice. What i meant by the "nondater" is that i dont date but i think that people think that is weird if you know what i mean. I have read some of the book of[u] Before I meet prince charming[/u] by Sarah malley, in fact in in a Bright Lights group and we went over the book:) . Once again i thank you all for the advice. <3 *(Emilie)* <3

[b]harkee33 wrote:[/b] [quote]thanks all for the advice. What i meant by the "nondater" is that i dont date but i think that people think that is weird if you know what i mean. [/quote] Ah...gotcha. I just wanted to clarify because I wasn't sure what you meant, and I wasn't sure what advice to give. But it seems like the other girls have done a pretty good job, as usual. :)

[b]harkee33 wrote:[/b] [quote]thanks all for the advice. What i meant by the "nondater" is that i dont date but i think that people think that is weird if you know what i mean. I have read some of the book of[u] Before I meet prince charming[/u] by Sarah malley, in fact in in a Bright Lights group and we went over the book:) . Once again i thank you all for the advice. <3 *(Emilie)* <3[/quote] ahh thats great! and forget what they think! theres a guy thats going to love that you saved your self for him, God bless!

i'm 15 and i just got out of a realationship. it'z okay to feel weird about it. just go to God and he'll give you the answer even when you feel like He's just ignoring you, He'll let you know what to do when the time is right. But in the mean time, just forget about relationships when your truely ready for one, God will put you with a guy to learn from, or a man that you might be with forever. just try not to rush it. when your ready for a relationship, God will let you know. if u need anything my page is mae_mae43 ur an honest chic!:)

...wow :blink: i can definitely sympathise with feeling like i need someone, but i can also tell you that unless you're at least working to put God first in your life, that desire is never gonna be filled. that desire is the "God-sized" hole that we're born with. no mortal man (no matter how cute or sweet, and that's sometimes hard for me to remember!) can ever fill that hole. maybe you've seen this illistration? a man and wife go for counseling. their counselor puts them on either sides of a ladder and tells them that "God" is at the top of the ladder. we all need to be close to God, so the couple each take a step towards God. the closer they get to God, the closer they get to each other. God will give us a love for others if we love Him first. L)

[b]harkee33 wrote:[/b] [quote]Ok so i really i know i should be somewhat happy that im single but i just really, really want to be with a guy. I feel weird when some people tell me they are dating and they are younger than me...im only 13.....isnt that kinda weird? Any way please give me some advice on what i can do to stop feeling like a "nondater"..so to speak. *(Emilie)*[/quote] ok a little advice.....im 12 almost 13 and i have NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND IN MY LIFE.....NEVER. i know how you feel....i was just about to just go and date someone when i had an amazing summer....when i learned that i'm going to save myself, completely, for my guy that God is planning for me. I made a promise i wasnt going to date in middle school and i was going to save myself for whoever God points out for me. ofcourse i like guys.....i think their cute and junk like that but just because all my friends and some younger people i know have boyfriends/girlfriends.....im not going to break that promise. so just talk to God about it......whenever you feel lonely do something fun instead of thinking of guys. call a friend, hang out with your family or just spend some time with God....thats always fun too :]]] hope i helped