hey guys! i have something to ask you. whut do guys like in girls? i have ask't some of my guy friends and they just said they have to be hot and thats it. so can you guys tell me whut you would look for in a girl. thanx! ~FadedWings~:P

a nice personality

[b]rami009 wrote:[/b] [quote]a nice personality[/quote] i concur wholeheartedly

Guys shouldn't look at the outward appearance of girls. It's the heart of the person that you should be looking at, not just the outward appearance. You should get to know a girl. That way, you can know if you want to hang out with her more often. Many times, guys look at the outward appearance of girls and say, "She's the one for me." Take a moment to evaluate how you look at girls.

I agree with you guys, but I look for other things, too. I also want her to be a Christian. If she isn't a Christian, I won't even consider going out with her. I don't mind being friends with a non-Christian girl, but I'm not going any farther than that. I want her to be godly, too. If she doesn't have this, I'll treat her like I would the non-Christian girls when it comes to this. I would like us to have identical beliefs on key issues. I know we may not agree on everything, but we have to agree on the big issues. Some of the big issues are eternal security (once saved, always saved), music, tongues (I'm unsure if that really happens today or not, but I do not believe it would be like many churches teach it is, and that is what we must agree on), and other controversial issues. I'm a little more lenient on some than others. I also don't want her to be much older or younger than me. I'm not going more than 2 years younger and preferably not more than 2 years older. I also look for certain physical characteristics, but those are the most trivial standards, and I tend to be very lenient on those. Here is one example of a trivial standard. I don't want someone taller than me. See, I told you it was trivial. I can go on and on, but I don't have much more that is very important to say about this. There are more big ones, but this is just a small list. I don't have many important standards, but the ones I do have are high.

alright... methinks I should actually give some of my actual things i look for: 1. Christian and serious about it 2. nice personality (i.e. cares about others, kind, compassionate, willing to help people who need it) 3. do we get along? 4. can we have fun and joke around with each other? (tie with)4. can we also be serious and talk about important stuff? 5. similar beliefs (i dont want to agree with everything with her because that'd get kinda boring... a good faith discussion is good every once in a while) 6. not too much of an age gap (i.e. 3 years) 7. decent looking (i dont want to consider her ugly, but i dont need her to be gorgeous... normally for me, that association with a person's looks comes after really getting to know the person) this was in order for the most part... i think i probably forgot some things somewhere