Alright mate Ima tell you upright. I do not feel like you can fully connect with your partner unless you are sexually compatable. You know what I mean? I think that you need to know if you even like having sex with that person. Believe it or not, you will be stuck with them for the rest of your life and sex is a pretty big deal. So sexual compatability is huge. But I see that you have a picture of a baby so I think you may have figured it out on your own.;) If you don't want to have sex with her before you get married I suggest you maybe read some books and brush up on your skills. Then on that speical night, you will for sure be compatable!

Ok.... I want my future husband to be pure also. And I want to marry who God desires me to marry.

[b]SuperHighLighter wrote:[/b] [quote]Alright mate Ima tell you upright. I do not feel like you can fully connect with your partner unless you are sexually compatable. You know what I mean? I think that you need to know if you even like having sex with that person. Believe it or not, you will be stuck with them for the rest of your life and sex is a pretty big deal. So sexual compatability is huge. But I see that you have a picture of a baby so I think you may have figured it out on your own.;) If you don't want to have sex with her before you get married I suggest you maybe read some books and brush up on your skills. Then on that speical night, you will for sure be compatable![/quote] I agree with you, cause me and my bf are sexually active, and I appereantly reap the conciquences, but sex is a big deal, cause he is the only guy Ive been with sexually, and I have nothin to compare it to, but I know that its not bad...... ( dont know if thats to much info) but honestly i think a couple should be compatible with they're sex lives. He has been with another girl, but he did get tested, but him being with the other girl benefitted me..... lol

guys, don't put yourself in comprimising situations, someone said like it was hard to stop kissing whatever

My thoughts... You should want him to be pure for more then 1 reason though. The first reason is because thats what GOD intended for us and wants up to do, not to mention if you at dinner and you order one plate you like it, but once you have had a buffet you then can decide whats better the ritz or the saltine. The last thing a newly wed wants to do is compare herself to the next.

The sexually compatible line frankly is ridiculous. God made men and women sexually compatible. That's all you need to know. There is no reason to be experimenting around before marriage. We are told [i]not[/i] to do so, and you'll get all the experience you need inside of marriage.