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Sorry ladies,but i got a question

Emmy89
19 year(s) ago

I thought I would just say that even if my husband had lost his virginity the Lord makes all things new...and we've all sinned and fallen short of his glory..so while i would prefer him to be a virgin i don't think we should all be so aament about it.

horsechic1990
19 year(s) ago

[b]Emmy89 wrote:[/b] [quote]I thought I would just say that even if my husband had lost his virginity the Lord makes all things new...and we've all sinned and fallen short of his glory..so while i would prefer him to be a virgin i don't think we should all be so aament about it.[/quote] I know this probabaly sounds silly, but if the guy wasn't a virgin when you married him, do you think that he should get checked for diseases and whatnot? I don't even have a boyfriend at the moment, I was just wondering about it.

supercoolperson
19 year(s) ago

for me personally, i am saving myself , and i would perfer that when i do get married that my husband has saved himself too, bc/c (and this may sound corny) but then he or she wont have anyone else to compare you too. PLUS JESUS SAID TO ABSTAIN

Emmy89
19 year(s) ago

Horsechic...I think that it would depend on how many girls he had slept with..like if he had made the mistake once and then never again maybe not..it depends on how he lived his lifestyle...

horsechic1990
19 year(s) ago

[b]Emmy89 wrote:[/b] [quote]Horsechic...I think that it would depend on how many girls he had slept with..like if he had made the mistake once and then never again maybe not..it depends on how he lived his lifestyle...[/quote] I can see your logic there totally! Thanks for your input!

Stingray04
19 year(s) ago

Well say the guy wasn't a Christian and he slept around a little. Then one day he met Christ and felt sorry for what he'd done and asked God to help restore his pureness in a way. (Trust me it can happen.) All am saying is God can purify the filthiest of sinners, no matter who they are or what they've done. So although he may be experienced it's not who he is anymore. By the way I'm not saying I want my husband to be like that. I'm waiting for God to send the right one. (Pure or repurified!)

abbster805
19 year(s) ago

:angry: no

kAiLeE-xOxO
19 year(s) ago

pureness is the best gift you can have and give to somebody. your husband and your husband ONLY!!

aav-jewel
19 year(s) ago

Interesting question, i would definitly expect my future husband to be pure becuase i'm waiting for him, and he should wait for me too. You could also read up on this in the Bible Hebrews – Chapter 13:4 is a good one if you want.

braceface
19 year(s) ago

[b]commandman24 wrote:[/b] [quote]Sorry I'm in here ladies. but I have a question When yall get married do you guys want your husbands to have "experience" with other ladies, or you what it straight out of the oven?<br><br>Post edited by: JesusfreakASIAN, at: 2006/10/06 18:29[/quote] well sometime i want stait out of the oven but sometimes you can blam a person for likeing some1 who is devorsed

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