Sorry I'm in here ladies. but I have a question When yall get married do you guys want your husbands to have "experience" with other ladies, or you what it straight out of the oven?

Post edited by: JesusfreakASIAN, at: 2006/10/06 18:29

This may sound really bad on my part but... I would like for them to be exprienced! I don't want to have to sit there and lookat them cause they don't know what to do? HELLO!! I don't want them to have been a nasty slut or something , but if they've been with one other person who was clean and they've been tested , I'd perferr it! I know it may be wrong but thats how I feel. I want to ENJOY MY FIRST EXPERIENCE!! Plus it well mean alot to the guy if you've waited (sometimes). But yeah, I think they should , or have possibily exprienced somethings. It's there for you to enjoy , so why not enjoy it ! okay I'm done.

I agree with everyone on here who says that both guys and girls need to stay pure until marriage. I am staying pure for my future husband and I hope that all other girls do too, 'cause that is what God commands us to do. Guys are supposed to stay pure too, 'cause God's law applies to everyone, not just a specific gender or race or something like that. Everyone stay pure please!

I am staying pure for my husband and I pray he will do the same. it would be soooooooo special. If you want to stay pure until marriage (which it says in the Bible to do) Then pray for your future partner that they will do the same. It's not easy to stay pure, it's a sacrifice but a good one at that.

Couldn't you have just asked i nthe open discussion board if ppl wanted their spouse to be pure?

Post edited by: Emmy89, at: 2006/10/06 23:21

im a virgin and he darn well should be too!

um. . . . . . . . .gross and i dont think i would want my futrue husben to be with another women:sick: :sick: :sick: :sick:

[b]Amen![/b] (to what Fadedwings said)

I think if they have 'experience' it should be from themselves finding out and not through other ladies.

YES! he better be pure, cuz if im holding out for him he better hold his horses!;)

Post edited by: sweetp, at: 2006/10/25 18:12