ok. so there is this guy at my church who is kinda new and we both went to camp this year. well at camp he told my froend that he liked me and i had told her i liked him. and we were all flirty and stuff at camp. and then we came bak home and he wanted to ask me out but i told him i couldnt date and my parents wouldnt allow it. so he called them up and asked and they said they will allow me to date when i am 16 (supervised). and he said he was willing wait and he wanted to take me to his graduation dance (he's 16) and now that we are like back at home.. idk he isnt the dude that i liked at camp. but eh still likes me. and he keeps flirting and i feel bad... and i told him i didnt want him to wait around 4 me. and he said he was willing 2. but then he said he just wanted to be friends and then c how we feel then. but all my friends at church keep categorizing us as a couple. idk... i just kinda want it all to stop.:(

I agree with lil-rush :] Except, I have no clue what platonic means. :blink:

hey, you may say you liked the person he was at camp and not now after camp. well, you say you just want to b friends, well, im kind of in the same situation. this guy likes me and i dont really have the same feallings for him but this is what i think. you may say you just want to be friends right? well your not 16 yet so that gives you time to really get to know him or just see if youll warm up to him and by the time your 16 you may have feallings 4 him so you would want to date him. you really dont have to do it this way, its just a suggestion. i hope it helped!:P

i think that u should just try to completely avoid him and not act flirty or anything

well its is a good suggestion but i dont think i will EVER warm up to him. and he keeps sending me messages w/ little kisses or hearts in them. and i DO NOT act flirty. to him anywayz.

well then if thats the case, just go with what every one else is saying, IGNORE. i think he will get the picture. well, that sounds kind of mean so if you can put it in any other way that makes it sound any... nicer, go wright away. :dry:

i guess...