can u give me some advice on how girls like to be asked out.

well i know her alot we are friends. she is a cool girl and we are almost best friends and we flirt with each other

From what your site says I think you're too young to date. You're opening yourself up for this at way too young of an age, and dating is a special thing...You shouldn't do it just for the sake of doing it. I already wrote a long reply about this on the dating thread in the girls forum which youve probably read since you post here.... btw the girls would still answer this if you posted it on the open discussion...

well 4 heavens sake in 12 that is old enough

I'm sorry if I came across as rude, but i'm trying to talk to you as a sister in christ...you should see how i talk to my best friend:) lol I'm 17 and I'm not ready toget married...and i believe that since i'm not ready to get married i;m not ready to date..because dating is supposed to set the stage for marraige.. you should try to save yourself completely for your wife..and i know there is a lot of pressure to ahve a gf or bf but don't give into to it...in the long run you and you wife will be glad that you did not.

I have to agree with Emmy...MOST 12 year olds are not mentally or emotionally mature enough to handle the stress of relationship with someone of the opposite gender. I'm almost 19 and I know 20 year olds who are not mature enough for a relationship.

Hehe, oh my... Yes, I agree with the other girls (first, that you should even be in here). You're too young. Trust me, in five years+ when you look back on what you are like now, you will see just how much you have changed. Don't kid yourself with the feeling mature bit. Everyone feels more mature than they really are at your age. You feel like you're ready for the world before you really understand it. I'm not bashing you, because I was the exact same way when I was 12. It's just not time. Be patient and enjoy the friendship you have with her. Don't wreck it for yourselves.

[b]peewee872 wrote:[/b] [quote]well 4 heavens sake in 12 that is old enough[/quote] i did not have my first bf till i was 14. we have went out 3 dif times since then (i'm almost 15 now) and i have not regretted it exactly b//c he's a super sweet and nice CHRISTIAN guy but he broke up with me all 3 times and i sorta wish we never went out b/c i would have saved me ALOT of tears and heartache...anyway my point is...if i was not ready at 14 u most likely r not ready at 12! i no that may seem rude but i'm trying to help u...my younger cousin who is 2 yrs younger that me has had way more bf than me but she is really not ready for one yet...but that's her prob and i'm not getting in to it with her... p.s. if u want to talk to me more about this then u can msg me on here or if u have a myspace... my myspace URL is www.myspace.com/kimberlyschanbacher

thats always a plus that youre like best friends, but 12? im 15(not to compare cuz everyones diferent) enjoy being 12!! ive never gone out with annyone and dont plan too til im ready to get married, most 12 yr olds and til i think youre ready should just have fun and not have the pressure of going out, i dont think going out is a bad thing i dont like it, but when youre young its not something you need

Ok so when i was 12 I couldn't wait till I was 16 so that I could have a boyfriend. Now that I am 16 I don't really see the point. I have been asked out but after talking to my best friend about it, I've decided to wait to get into any kind of relationship unless I can honestly see myself with that person in 4 or 5 years. Why do people date? Well usually it's because everyone else does but the relationship rarely last more than a few months. The only REAL reason people SHOULD date, is if they are thinking about marriage. I'm sorry but 12 is way to young to get involved in any kinda of relationship. It will only lead to tears and heartbreak. Believe me I've seen it happen many times. I know right now you may think you and this girl are meant to be together but I doubt you feel that way in a few years. I don't comeletely know the situation so maybe I should say too much more but trust me when i say 12 is to young to start dating.